Privacy policy

The short version

We collect the minimum we need to run the product. We don't sell your information. We don't advertise on it. Vendors and couples can only see what we explicitly show each other.

What we collect

From everyone:

• Email address (for sign-in and the one launch email)
• Whatever Google or other OAuth providers share when you sign in — typically name and profile photo
• Basic device data so the site works on your screen — browser type, screen size, country-level IP location

From couples specifically:

• Wedding date (optional)
• City you're getting married in
• Which vendor categories you're browsing
• Which vendors you save or pass on (we use this to tune the deck)

From vendors specifically:

• Business name, category, location, pricing, photos
• The Stripe customer record for billing — we never see your card details

Who sees what

Couples and vendors only see each other's information when someone sends a message:

• Vendors see a couple's display name, wedding date, city, and the message — but only after the couple writes them first.
• Couples see public listing information for any vendor in their deck — what the vendor wrote, photos, links.
• Replies happen via email, outside the platform. We don't proxy or store the conversation thread.

Who we share with

A short list of services we use to run the platform:

• Supabase — auth, database, file storage
• Vercel — hosting
• Stripe — vendor subscriptions (vendors only)
• Resend — transactional email (when couples message vendors)

We do not sell your data to advertisers, brokers, or anyone else. We do not run third-party advertising on the site.

What you can do

Edit your profile (couples: from your profile page; vendors: from the dashboard). Delete your account by emailing hello@tobeweddingapp.com — we'll remove your data within seven days unless we're legally required to keep specific records (billing receipts, fraud cases). You can also ask for a copy of what we have.

Cookies

We use cookies to keep you signed in and remember your role (couple vs. vendor). No tracking cookies, no third-party advertising cookies.

Children

to.be is for people planning weddings. We don't knowingly collect data from anyone under 18. If you think we have, write us and we'll delete it.

Updates to this policy

If we make a meaningful change, we'll email people with an account before it takes effect. Smaller wording fixes just get a new date at the top.

Questions

hello@tobeweddingapp.com. A person reads these.